Stalking
“What makes an NPD creep stalk ONE victim...yet
leaves the rest alone? Why is it that people who have never been stalked
somehow seem to think we DO something to deserve this sick attention? Is it
another case of ‘victim blaming’? Do these people really think that by making
out that I’M the sick one that somehow means they’re OK Jack because they’re
‘unlike’ me?”
“It’s crazy isn’t it? It’s as if you get targeted, and then you get
blamed for noticing or OBJECTING to it....I definitely think I got it figured
the other day...I get stalked because I can’t be “bought”, bribed or otherwise
corrupted, and it shows........I figured out too, these jerks have usually have
TWO kinds of victims, the ones they buy, and the ones they stalk, and that
would fit the same profile too.”
“So do they stalk us to either prove they can control us (aka what would happen to them if they stopped being swine)
or that we are as bad as they are when the stakes get high enough (aka they are no worse than anyone else in the heel of the
hunt), either of which would furnish them with as sense of justification for
their obnoxiousness?”
“You know, on
the one hand I just hate him for his transgressions against me, but on the other hand I feel so badly for what he went through as
a child The whole situation just hurts and I
don’t understand why he won’t leave me be.WHY WHY WHY???”
“What is it about me that vicious little psycho “must
have” so badly? It’s been two years folks... Two years I couldn’t have
wanted in my worst nightmares. He started by insinuating himself into
every situation I was involved in and turning almost everyone I knew
against me. It was like having a kid hanging on to your skirt...a devil
doll. For me it was devastating, because the ‘net is the only social world
I can handle...But why me?”
“It’s all so crazy,
out of proportion......a part of me is scared to ignore him completely, because
I am not sure how far he’ll go if I do.......Or what form that will take, oh
well, he has achieved ANOTHER few days squatting rent free in my head. Bet that’s a neat little thrill for him.”
“Once
someone is acting THAT crazy, you CAN’T know how far they will go. It isn’t
WISE to get too complacent.”
“That is the position they
FORCE on us...wishing them dead, or imprisoned because that is the only way
THEY will let us feel safe...There’s no reasoning with them, no negotiating
your rights... There isn’t even a whole lot of running away.”
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